Which Java Application Servers are in use and recommended?

We are evaluating Java-based open source Business Process Management Systems such as Bonitasoft BPM and Activiti and have been using Tomcat as our Application Server during the evaluation and pilot project. There is an incompitability between Bonitasoft and MS SQL Server when using Tomcat which would require us to use another BPMS, a different DBMS or a different Application Server, such as JBoss which is actually Bonitasoft's recommendation. I'd like to know which Java Application Servers are currently in use and what are peoples' experiences (both positive and negative) with installation, reliability, performance and administration/management.

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